29 March | Teens

BETRAYED BY HIS OWN SON

«And David said unto all his servants that were with him at Jerusalem, Arise, and let us flee; for we shall not else escape from Absalom: make speed to depart, lest he overtake us suddenly, and bring evil upon us, and smite the city with the edge of the sword.» 2 Samuel 15: 14

In today's story, David faces one of the greatest betrayals possible: being betrayed by his own son, Absalom. Not only did Absalom conspire against his father to seize the throne, but he also won the hearts of the people of Israel with his persuasive words and his gestures of false kindness. He declared himself king in Hebron and began to persecute David, forcing his own father to flee Jerusalem to save his life.

Absalom's betrayal was not only a heavy blow to David as king, but a deep wound at his father's heart. Absalom, seeking the throne, ended up meeting his end in a tragic way, trapped by his own hair in an oak tree during the battle against his father's forces. Even after such an act of betrayal and in the face of Absalom's violent death, David mourned the loss of his son, demonstrating his fatherly love, which was stronger than pain and betrayal.

This episode in David's life teaches us about the complexity of human relationships and the pain that betrayal, especially within the family, can cause. But it also shows us the importance of forgiveness and unconditional love, even when we face the greatest betrayals.

Take Action

Write a letter (that you don't have to send) to someone who has hurt you or who you think has betrayed you. In the letter, express your feelings, but also try to express forgiveness. After writing, say a prayer asking God to help you release any feelings of anger or resentment, just as David continued to love Absalom despite his betrayal.